The energetic portal has been steadily opening for our newest offering: Bai Bena, which means New Path in the language of the Huni Kuin people of the Amazon rainforest. And in true co-creational style the Spirits of Nature have been very active – bringing experiences that carry profound lessons and reminders.
As we prepare for this deep dive into the spiritual realms and the cosmovision of the Huni Kuin people, I feel called to share some of the teachings that have been alive for me this past week.
The Teaching That Guides Me
I’ve learned with the Huni Kuin people that:
Support only comes when someone sincerely asks for it. And only when they are truly open to receive.
No rescuing. No interfering. No stepping into someone’s chaos uninvited. No offering advice to a heart that has not made space for listening.
In the world of the Huni Kuin, this is not coldness. It is dignity. It is respect.
And it is the foundation of right relationship — with humans, with spirits, with the world we cannot see.
This teaching has been echoing in my mind these days as life brought me yet another initiation to learn from.
The Message That Carried an Energy Before the Words Arrived
A few days ago, a message reached me from someone going through a very intense process. Before I even saw the message, I felt the force of it moving toward me — an interfering energy that was making my left eye twitch. I felt a bit uneasy, since its been a while since I’ve felt such a persistent intrusion. Many hours later I read the message, which carried words loaded with strong emotional energies. I’ve heard that other people’s judgement, criticism and envy can affect us like psychic attacks, and now what I felt made total sense.
My energy field alerted itself the way the body does when something that is not ours approaches uninvited.
Someone had reached out to me for help earlier, and when I kindly declined to get involved in something that is not my business, and instead provided some alternative offerings, my response was not received well. Instead, I received a message filled with confusion, desperation, and accusation. What felt like a plea for help disguised as demand.
This is a familiar tone — one I’ve encountered many times in others, and honestly, one that I have seen in myself too at times when I have felt like my requests for help have not been met. The tone of someone whose pain is speaking louder than their soul.
In that moment, several parts of me woke up:
- the part that wanted to soothe
- the part that wanted to explain
- the part that wanted to fix
- the part that wanted to blame
- the part that wanted to avoid
- the part that felt the hook tugging at my energy
- and the part that felt fear — not of the person, but of the entanglement waiting beneath the exchange
This is the part many sensitives, healers, and helpers know intimately: the pull to step into someone else’s storm.
The Entity Behind the Story
In the Western world, we are taught to look for psychological explanations. Trauma. Triggers. Patterns. Unhealed wounds.
And while these lenses can sometimes help, I’ve also watched how they can trap us — how people become identified with their wounds and stories of victimhood , protecting them like precious stories, justifying harmful behaviour, or avoiding responsibility instead of seeking true freedom.
The Huni Kuin see things differently.
From their indigenous perspective – which is in relation with the spirit realms – what I felt in that message, and in my left eye, was not “trauma acting out.” It was an entity feeding through the person’s field — hungry, manipulative, destabilizing, wrapped in the mask of “please help me” while rejecting every form of help that would actually create change.
And in that moment, I knew clearly: The chaos was not the person. The person was simply entangled.
The hook was the entity, not the soul.
And the entity’s goal was simple: To pull me in. Take my attention. Confuse my focus. And feed off the exchange.
These kinds of energetic interactions are rampant in our world and many of us participate in these energetic entanglements – often unknowingly – become channels to these hungry energies that project blame and judgement on others and feed of the energies of well intending people.
Part of Me Wanted to Step In
I won’t pretend I was above it. A real part of me leaned forward:
“Maybe I should help.”
“Maybe I should explain.”
“Maybe I should calm them down.”
“Maybe this is my responsibility.”
“I know I have the resources to help.”
I know this place well. I used to live it fully. The pattern of rescuing, over-helping, over-feeling, absorbing what wasn’t mine — all of it driven by the belief that I had to protect others from their pain, or protect myself from the discomfort of their discomfort.
But something in me has shifted — softened, matured, become clearer as a result of countless hours of observing and contemplating on my beliefs, preferences, behaviors, the cultural narratives I carry and sitting with the ancient wisdom of the Huni Kuin people.
The Moment I Remembered the Teaching
As I navigated through the distracting energy field, I kept hearing the teaching again and again:
Do not interfere.
Do not enter without an invitation.
Do not pour your energy where it will not be received.
So instead of reacting, I did the one thing my younger self would never have done: I paused. I did some nervous system soothing exercises. I went out for a walk. I kept myself busy. And I turned my attention away from the hook toward calling in the energies and activities that support me.
I chose not to engage the energy. I chose to stay with myself, my path, my clarity.
And the tension melted away and gave way to space, stillness and a knowing. The realization that this interaction was not a burden — it was a teaching, an initiation and an opportunity.
A reminder.
A test.
And a gift.
The gift of practicing what I speak of: energetic sovereignty, right relationship, and the courage to stay rooted in my own path.
Western “Trauma Culture” vs. Indigenous Clarity
One thing I’ve been sitting with for a long time — and this week brought it back with force — is how easily the Western world over-identifies with trauma language.
Everything uncomfortable becomes trauma.
Every reaction becomes a wound or coping mechanism.
Every difficulty becomes pathology.
And before long, we become trapped in the stories that were meant to liberate us.
But the Huni Kuin have shown me something different:
Not every intensity is trauma.
Not every dysfunction is childhood pain.
Not every chaos is psychological.
Sometimes discomfort can be resistance to change.
Sometimes challenges are the Great Spirit asking for us to make a change.
Sometimes it is energy that we have invited.
Sometimes it is energy that came with the wind.
Sometimes it is an entity.
Sometimes it is a misalignment.
Sometimes it is a refusal to take responsibility.
This perspective has helped me to step out of blame and into clarity and greater sovereignty.
Because when you see the energy for what it is, you stop taking it personally. It becomes easier to set boundaries and take responsibility. And you can begin to walk differently.
Help That Isn’t Wanted Is Not Help
Something else became painfully clear in this situation: You cannot help someone who is not open to being helped.
You can pour all your love, time, attention, and wisdom into someone — but if they are not ready to receive, the energy doesn’t land.
Instead, it spirals. It distorts. It entangles. It drains.
This is something that I’ve learned with the Huni Kuin: Help is only help when there is openness, humility, and reciprocity.
Otherwise, it becomes interference. And interference creates entanglement — not healing.
The Real Medicine: Turning Toward Your Own Path
Instead of falling into the whirlpool of someone else’s storm, I chose to sit down and write this. I chose to focus on the path of the good. Of growth and creation. Of gratitude and sharing.
This — right here — is my medicine.
To transform the energy.
To learn from the experience.
To honor the teaching.
To turn the hook into a doorway.
To let the discomfort sharpen my discernment.
To reclaim my focus and my clarity.
This is the path that I choose to walk.
This is the path I wish to illuminate for others.
And this is the path I invite others into.
This is the path of Bai Bena – the New Path
Why I’m Sharing This
Everything I’ve shared here — the entities, the hooks, the overwhelm, the rescuing impulse, the sensitivity, the desire to help, the confusion and frustration — these are realities that so many sensitives, healers, and helpers are living with.
And almost no one has given us a framework for how to walk cleanly and confidently in all this.
This is why my husband, Rua Inu Huni Kuin, and I are opening Bai Bena in the coming weeks:
We will have 2 live weekend immersions in Espoo, Finland:
1. 29-30 November 2025 (in Finnish)
2. 13-14 December 2025 (in English)
These events are for those who feel the call to:
- deepen their connection with the spirit world
- refine their discernment
- stop leaking energy
- walk with spirits in right relationship
- support others without collapsing
- stay aligned with their mission
- recognize which energies are theirs — and which are not
- build sovereignty in a multidimensional world
We will explore Rua Inu’s ancestral heritage and that I (as a cultural bridge) have learned during my journey with the Huni Kuin people — not as theory, but through:
- songs
- stories
- embodiment
- prayer
- practice
- and direct experience
If this resonates with your path, you can find find the full invitation HERE.
Reclaiming sovereignty
I share this story not to expose anyone, not to dramatize, and not to blame — but because these moments are mirrors. They show us where we leak. Where we overreach. Where we abandon ourselves. Where we collapse. Where we interfere. Where we forget our own light.
And when we meet these moments and awareness with honesty and humility, they become the steps that lead us back to clarity.
May we learn to walk in right relationship — with ourselves, with others, with the unseen world, and with the mission our soul carries in this lifetime.